It is normal for couples to fight from time to time. It is inevitable for one to do something that their partner would not like. Maybe you said something that goes against the belief of your partner. Nevertheless, some fights are regular and need to happen for your relationship to grow and to learn more about your partner. If the rows are only breaking your relationship, it might be time to end things. These are five of the most intense arguments that are signs you should end the relationship.
1. Fights About Continuous Dishonesty
Surely you have lied at least once or twice in your life - especially those little white lies. Maybe, you have lied to your partner once, and it turned into a huge fight. However, if you or your partner have resorted to continuous dishonesty and this has been the root of numerous conflicts, then you should consider breaking up. When most of your fights have been about the lies told, then the foundation of trust in your relationship is broken down. You should know that the foundation of faith in a relationship is one of the most important things. With that gone, there is no point anymore. Your relationship will never stop ceasing to be toxic, and it’s better to break up already.
2. Fights About Frequent Cheating
If one of you cheated the first time, it could pass up as a fault in judgment. However, cheating is never right, and the partner loses trust and respect for the cheater. If you can't trust or respect someone, how can you continue a relationship? It is hard to even look at someone after they cheated on you, so it is unlikely that the partnership can continue. Cheating breaks down another important relationship-foundation. And that should have already been the cue to end the relationship.
3. Arguments About Your Differences In What You Want In Life And Your Relationship
As a relationship progresses, you and your partner should be on the same page about your future goals. If you are on two different pages, that is a red flag. Especially when you are in a long-term relationship, and you have been fighting about the future. If you and your partner have different ideas for the future that can't be compromised, it's time to reevaluate things. Because you surely do not want to let go of your own goals - which is fine and understandable. But that also means that they have the same reason in mind. It's probably for the best to end your relationship now to achieve your individual goals by yourself and find a partner with the same relationship goals as you.
4. Fights About Jealousy Or Controlling Tendencies
If you and your partner have spent most of the time fighting about jealously, it's time to talk about the future of the relationship. When one is the jealous type, then that means that they may not be capable of trusting their partner - which breaches the trust foundation in a relationship. Besides, one should not have a reason to be jealous in the first place. Jealousy sometimes is the cause of controlling tendencies, which will often lead to one becoming unhappy in the relationship. If this continues, then it's better to go your separate ways instead of living in an unhappy relationship.
5. Continuous Fights About The Same Thing Again And Again
If your fights are about the same things continuously, you need to figure out the root of the problem. You should know by now that if you have had intense fights over the same reasons, that your partner may not change. If you stay in your relationship and have the same arguments, you are creating a never-ending loop in your relationship. You might as well get out now. Relationships can be challenging, and fights are inevitable. You’re human, and you get tired too. So if you feel as though you have had enough of these fights, then we hope that this article has helped you gain the guts to leave your current relationship and find one that you deserve to be in.